When You Don’t Know What To Say…

One of the best things you can do for someone who is sick or fighting a life-threatening illness is to simply show up. So many times, we are scared that we won't say the right thing or maybe worse we will say the wrong thing.  Don’t let that fear prevent you from letting someone know your care.  A visit can just be a quick hello, and all you need to bring is love, empathy, and a willingness to listen.  Most of the time, the less you say the better because just being present will mean more to them than you could possibly convey. I still remember everyone who visited me when I was in the hospital for over a week. Most just stopped in to let me know they were praying for me, and others brought a small gift which was not expected but appreciated. Some fun things to receive were little snacks, a warm blanket, or a cozy...